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Love and hate seems like siblings by Thomas G.Guo

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发表于 2/11/2014 03:46:24 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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Love and hate seems like siblings. It is easily turn from love to hate. Chinese said that "love one deeply, hate him/her abyssal". My personal experience proved it sounds truth. My ex-girl-friend turn me from a virgin boy into a real man when I was 28 years old, who hated me so much that she tried her best to destroy my career as a lawyer in 1988! Because she misunderstood my honestly told her my true story: I was forced into a mental hospital for my openly criticizing the Marxism Leninism, and Mao's thought in February 1984! She alleged "rapt crime" against me while with a madness and malice heart! As The result, I lost my law license in 1988 first time...

Hate is not love at all, but only a malice sister of love, which very close with envy and jealous, for hatred is a vice of narrow souls and a madness of heart. In my life, I never hate anybody, even that girl who ruin my lawyer's career, I forgave her right away when I learn that she was out of mind for her envy. But I strongly hate hypocrisy, oppression and injustice. It is because the CCP criminal state being one of the evilest hypocrisy oppression and injustice regime in the history of the world, make me hate such rogue state so much! But I only hate the CCP regime, never hate any genuine communists. Communism is only a bad idea which can never become reality in human society, until human being all become exactly same in everywhere, and in every respects, such as gene-man/woman but natural human being. I firmly believe that to end the evilest CCP criminal regime for good, is my "heaven fate" and mission, no matter how hard it will be, no matter how poor I might have to suffer, I will go on fighting for justice and freedom of New China, which is restore the Republic of China, until the last breath of mine, when the time come, I have to rest my soul then I can say I have done everything I can!


Love and Jealousy. "Jealousy is the injured lover's hell", as Milton point out."Jealousy is the sister of love, as the devil is the brother of angels", said Boufflers. It is 'green-eyed monster', it might be offspring of love and always born with love; however, it is not the love, but a product of the love; Jealousy always extinguishes the love, which pays bitterest wages, turns the love to the hate, change happiness into misery, poisons pure heart into vicious mind.

Unfortunately, I have become the victim of jealousy repeatedly in my life. In Feb 1984, I was betrayed by my best friend in Jilin university, for his strong jealousy which even he himself might never realize it. Because I show the courtship letter from one of the charming girls to him, with a purpose share my happiness with my best friend, I never realize that I made a big mistake, for the letter trigger his evil intention in his deep soul. He reported to party secretary of law school, who base on a fake or unqualify doctor's judgement, forced me into a mental hospital for twenty-one days, suffered the forced brainwashing, I lost my memory and talent in thinking...the best friend sometimes might be your biggest enemy, this is the lesson I learn from my life. However, three years later, again, I was betrayed by my ex-girlfriend and fiance, for political reason, for my strong anti-the CCP regime! Thanks for her charged, I lost my law license first time in 1988. I never realize that nearly thirty years later, I have to become the victim of jealousy again! It is said that even pig will not hit the wall twice, but I have become the victim of jealous three times! Am I a stupid fool? Why jealousy always follow me wherever I go? Because I have got much more love than ordinary people, I have to recognize that I might be one of the luckiest men in the world, for I am loved by many people around the world. Is it funny or boast? I do not understand why so many ladies and girls love a penniless old gentleman like me? Nobody will believe it unless who is out of mind.

By the way, all words here are a practice of express in English only. The story, life experience, emotion, feeling, thought, reflection, dreams, imagination, opinion, judgment, comment, debate, discuss, analysis are practice only. I communicate with someone whose pen name is "Nanguo" in Chinese, while "Thomas G Guo" is my English name, My Chinese name is "GuoGuoting".  I am waiting for my soulmate in the world, frankly speaking, I do not know who is she and where is she, she might be living in the Heaven. The ladies and girls who are pursuing Thomas G Guo must know where to communicate with him, otherwise, they will lose the greatest chance of success.


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 楼主| 发表于 2/11/2014 03:50:01 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 郭国汀 于 3/3/2015 15:31 编辑

Love and Jealousy. "Jealousy is the injured lover's hell", as Milton point out."Jealousy is the sister of love,as the devil is the brother of angels", said Boufflers. It is 'green-eyed monster', it might be offspring of love and always born with love; however, it is not love, but a product of love; Jealousy always extinguishes love, which pay bitterest wages, turn love to hate, change happiness into misery, poisons pure heart into vicious mind.

Unfortunately, I have become the victim of jealousy repeatedly in my life. In Feb 1984, I was betrayed by my best friend in Jilin university, for his strong jealousy which even he himself might never realize it. Because I show the courtship letter from one of the charming girl to him, with a purpose share my happiness with my best friend, I never realize that I made a big mistake, for the letter triger his evil intention in his deep soul. He reported to party secretary of law school, who base on a fake or unqualify doctor's judgement, forced me into a mental hospital for twenty-one days, suffered the forced brain washing, I lost my memorary and talent in thinking...the best friend sometime might be your biggest enemy, this is the lesson I learn from my life. However, three years later, again, I was betrayed by my ex girl-friend and finace, for political reason, for my strong anti-the CCP regime! Thanks for her charged, I lost my law licence first time in 1988. I never realize that nearly thirty years later, I have to become the victim of jealousy again! It is said that even pig will not hit the wall twice, but I have become the victim of jealous three times! Am I stupid fool? Why jealousy always follow me whenever I go? Because I have got much more love than ordinary people, I have to recognize that I might be one of the luckiest man in the world, for I am loved by many people around the world. Is it funny or boast? I do not understand why so many ladies love a panniless gentleman like me? Nobody will believe it unless who is out of mind.


By the way, all words here are practice of express in English only. Story, life exprience, emotion, feeling, thought, reflection, dreams, imagination, opinion, judgement, comment, debate, discuss, analysis are practice only. I am communicate with someone whose pen name is "Nanguo" in Chinese, while "Thomas G Guo" is my English name, My Chinese name is "guoguoting".  I am looking for my soul-mate in the world, frankly speaking, I do not know who is she and whare is she, she might be living in the Heaven. The ladies and girls who are pursuring Thomas G Guo, must know where to communicate with him, otherwise they will lost the greatest chance of success.

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 楼主| 发表于 2/11/2014 03:54:28 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 郭国汀 于 1/25/2017 20:34 编辑

How old am I? by Thomas G Guo


It is said that the age is secret for female, as, for male, it does not matter. My classmate always asked me how old are you? I usually teasing them by the reply that: I am 18, I am 28, I am 38, I am 48, I am 58, I am 68 years young!


Do not believe? Let me tell you some top secret of mine: at 18, My dream is to be an industrial worker( under Mao's regime, working class is "the leading class", of course only in theory, in reality, the CCP and Mao, then Deng, Jiang, Hu and now Xi, totally control all power of China, they are the biggest dictators in the world) at 26, I seemed to become a philosopher, for I concluded that where there is more love, where must be more promising; at 28, I first become a real man, which means I got my first wet kisses and first intercourse only when I was twenty-eight!  at 30, I puzzled and confused whether I can be a qualified lawyer, not to say establish a successful career;  at 35, I was named as one of top four young lawyers in China, the number one is a Beijing lawyer Mr. Gongsha, the second one is me! at 42, I was named as one of the top maritime lawyer in China by Legal 500, however, My income from my lawyers business is small enough, even can not buy a car or a house, after having practiced 20 years! at 45, I thought I am strong enough to challenge the evilest criminal regime in the world, which proved wrong and poor judgement, for I am only an individual justice fighter, neither have party, nor interest group back me at all; at 47, I was forced into exile and lost my law firm and lovely family in Shanghai, at 50 I know nothing of "heaven fate"(Confucius at 50 know his Heaven fate), although I thought my heaven fate should end the CCP criminal regime! at 55, I became one of the poorest while a prominent lawyer in the world, as poor as a church mouse and in fact, lost my freedom in essence! for no private property, no freedom! at 56 I become a homeless and hopeless but self-thought as a noble soul wonder in the world. I really don't know how young I am!

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 楼主| 发表于 3/3/2015 12:33:57 | 显示全部楼层
"Every person on the Earth can not imagine his or her life without love.Real love is never a selfish emotion. True love is about wanting happiness for the person you love - and not about seeking happiness for yourself. Fortunately, in most cases our own loving presence is the greatest gift we can give to a person we love".wrote Elena
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本帖最后由 郭国汀 于 3/8/2015 19:50 编辑

You say you love rain, but when he comes, you open your umbrella ... You say you love the sun,but you hiding from it in shade ...But I would like to run in the rain and be in love and not fear anything.

One important thing for a woman is to inspire her man, to make him feel that he is cared for and loved, to give him confidence that no matter what happens in life he will have a tasty dinner and support of his beloved woman. Family is the other most important thing in the world.

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 楼主| 发表于 3/3/2015 12:45:02 | 显示全部楼层
What can make people closer? People become closer not because of likeness, compromises or common past. A sincere enjoyment of being different makes them closer. You don’t try to change anyone or bring this person over to your point of view. You just enjoy each other company. You will not find two identical persons. We are all unique. When you try to know someone it is like to read a new book. You agree with some points there or think in another way but still it is interesting for you and you can’t stop reading it. -Anna-
 楼主| 发表于 3/3/2015 13:04:20 | 显示全部楼层
They say that our life is a rain. Continuous rain. Sometimes it drizzles with small droplets, sometimes turns into a downpour. Everyone meets a person with umbrella in life. He comes unexpectedly and gives the sun, shelter from all bad things. It is important not to lose the person with an umbrella who comes only once. I have lots of rains in my life and now I am to meet the man with umbrella, who will bring sunshine, happiness and love into my life.-Vita-

 楼主| 发表于 3/3/2015 13:20:45 | 显示全部楼层
life is really short and we should try to live it happily! What is happiness? It is when you love and when you are loved, it is when you wake up on the shoulder of the loved person, it is when you hurry home and wish to surprise somebody with delicious pie or a new salad, it is when you sit together in a silence in front of the fireplace and dream about the future, remember warm and bright moments from the past. Happiness is when you are not alone in this big world! -Lyubov-

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 楼主| 发表于 3/3/2015 13:35:28 | 显示全部楼层
Dear Thomas,


I just wanted to tell you that I do believe everything is possible in our life. We need not only to dream, but to do everything possible to reach what we want and to wish it with all our soul! This is the way I live my life and it is obvious I decided to try this search to find my life partner.


And if two people want to be together their dream brings them closer to each other and makes their communication possible in spite of all the difficulties, distances and problems. Do you agree with me? But we have a great plus – we can have easy communication since I fortunately speak English pretty good.


I am a happy, optimistic and sociable lady. I am patient and caring towards the people close to me. I have a sense of humor and I try to have a smile on my face every day, every minute. We live only once and we need to receive a lot of pleasure from our life. And I know that I will be ten times happier if I were with the man I love. And I would make him happy too.


If you feel that we can find a lot in common with you, we can become closer to each other, please, don’t hesitate to write me back. We need only to learn more about us and be sincere. I wish you all the best and hope to hear from you,


Hugs and Kisses,


Diana


PS: this is a love letter from a Russian lady, which puzzle me while make me wonder whether the lucky star are falling upon me; however, I am not drunk nor feaver in head. Love is sweet, breathtaking, even crazy, but reality is cruel, for even the purest love are build upon bread, anyone without capacity to survive has no right to fall in love. unfortunately I am a man without such right? at least currently yes?!

 楼主| 发表于 3/3/2015 14:08:23 | 显示全部楼层
本帖最后由 郭国汀 于 3/4/2015 02:42 编辑

Dear Thomas,

Do you hear my heart? Do you wish to dive into the ocean of sensuality and passion? Do you want to discover my inner beauty? I am here knocking at your door! Can you open me? And then we could try to swim together in this sea named life!

I am as warm as a sun, as tender as an orchid, as bright as a star, as passionate as a fire, as vulnerable as a sky when it is rainy, I am ready to present my beloved person with warmth, positive emotions, attention, love and care. The most incredible quality of a man is ability to love! If you can do it, I am already waiting for you!

I have three main life principles: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. Love is the only heavenly phenomenon on this earth. Everything else is earthly; therefore it is only through love that one can reach to god and heavenly states of being. Without love, life becomes dull, repetitive and unfulfilling. We must live with love, because that is the only way to really live. The deeper and realer your love is, the deeper and more meaningful your life is. We must think of love and life as being the same and synonymous. Love is a feeling that churns up the insides. There's no reason, nobody knows why. But love is addictive. Everyone gets this feeling sometime. Love is precious and not a game to play. So remember if and when you fall in love and someday you will, don't be afraid to love that someone that loves you so much too.

I think that every person has his own world, the world where he feels himself happy; carelessly...This world is individual but very fragile, as our feelings are. In my world I want to see a man who would not destroy it but would feel it with brighter colors!

Can you be that man for me?

Sincerely,
Marine

Comment: this is an excellent courtship love letter which no gentleman could be able to ignorant it. the author is an elegant lady who must be love reading and got well education. She know how to express herself attratively and show her adore naturally. She told a lovely story about what is love in her mind, her choose words, sentence and paragraph carefully. I am sure the lady who wrote this letter must be very lovely not only in her outside abut inner beauty even more.




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